Here is how I used the NLP Secret for when I was a lone at a group meeting.
I have to tell you first, I am pretty much a loner. I never really liked to be in crowds. Never had a huge interest in being a social butterfly. I like to keep to myself. That is where I am more comfortable.
There are times though, when I had to go to parties alone or seminars or group meetings. Perhaps you have experienced this yourself? Anyway … I would be the guy alone in the corner or against the wall.
For me, this is an agonizing time. Everybody is talking to everybody … and then there is me, feeling sorry for myself, feeling all left out. Not having fun.
So, did a little pre-work before my next uncomfortable meeting using the NLP Secret for three things:
- shyness
- feeling left out
- feeling inferior
The results … drum roll … felt pretty good.
Sort of surprised that I felt reasonable comfortable the whole time … and I even could talk to strangers.
Now, I will tell you that was not the life of the gathering. Never wanted to be … but I did not feel out of place or uncomfortable. I did not feel inferior. That to me was a blessing.
How long did it take for me to re-program? I’d say 20 minutes for all three.
Do I still have more things I would like to work on in this scenario? Absolutely.
Self improvement is always needed. I will continue to constantly improve … one or two issues at a time.
Give it a try on your issues … shyness, self confidence, anxiety, inferiority … etc.
Here is the official site The NLP Secret.
Enjoy.
